人生不是急匆匆地完成任务…
<!----><style type="text/css">html{font-size:375%}</style><link href="https://pic.app.ytbbs.com/static/publish/css/style.css?v=1605251010503" rel="stylesheet" position="1" data-qf-origin="/static/publish/css/style.css?v=1605251010503"><!-- 付费贴--> <div class="preview_article "> <!----> <p>眼光长远是理性的，但也是苦闷的。</p><p>因为美好永远在将来，当下永远有苦难。</p><p> </p><p>——罗素</p><p> </p><p>所谓弱势群体，就是有些话没有说出来的人。就是因为这些话没有说出来，所以很多人以为他们不存在或者很遥远。</p><p> </p><p>——王小波</p><p> </p><p>小时候不懂一条细绳怎么可以拴住一头牛?让其在田间劳作一生。现如今一把无形的枷锁，把我困在这小小的泥凳前。原来牛和我都有各自的缺点。牛的鼻子太软，怕疼。我的人生太短，怕穷，牛的一生只图青草，我的一生只图温饱!</p><p> </p><p>既然人只有一辈子，那一定要做成点什么事才行。他觉得成功既不是腰缠万贯，也不是声名远扬。到底是什么呢？他也没有确定的答案，也许阅尽世间百态或者把自己的潜能发挥得淋漓尽致就是一种成功吧。</p><p> </p><p>—— 毛姆《人性的枷锁》</p><p> </p><p class="empty_paragraph"> </p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img 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有尊严的离开 “你跑得快，22岁有个家，身边全是赞叹。
你跑得慢，30岁还在路上追求梦想。
有的人为了车房拼了一辈子，
有些人买辆摩托车走遍大好河山。
你想成为怎样的人，过怎样的生活，
只要你不后悔就行。
并不是所有人都能在早上七点钟起床的，
也别拿一碗饭来衡量一个人胃口的大小。
有的人喜欢狼吞虎咽 有的人喜欢细嚼慢咽，
允许别人做别人，也允许自己做自己，
一岁有一岁的味道，一站有一站的风景，
跟着自己的心走就好。
不是所有选择都必须要做出正确选项的，
只要你想，你可以选择你喜欢的选项，
沿途的花会一直开，以后的路也是，
祝你也祝我。”
——人民日报 真的，此时我的最大享受就是天伦之乐！ 我40怎么就直接蹦到，无欲无求的境界了？可能是我前面的经历太多了？ 馒头包包 发表于 2024-3-13 15:09
我40怎么就直接蹦到，无欲无求的境界了？可能是我前面的经历太多了？
主要是穷 梧桐秋影 发表于 2024-3-13 15:52
我跟我儿子说，要在现在为未来10年而努力，因为你现在努力和时间花在那里，10年后的你就是什么样子……，简 ...
尽人事听天命
事在人为 梧桐秋影 发表于 2024-3-13 15:56
现在大多的论调，都在强调做自己，而忽略了，作为人的社会性属性决定了，大家要把自己的行为做在道德约束的 ...
过好自己的生活
其他不重要 梧桐秋影 发表于 2024-3-13 19:33
以前是这么想，也是这么做的。可是总不能一直把光明让给黑暗吧？
平民百姓还是切合实际比较好
照顾好自己同家人
长命百岁 子孙满堂
就算光宗耀祖 梧桐秋影 发表于 2024-3-13 19:34
那是我过去的人生观，可是我希望我儿子更勇敢一点……
各人有各人的世界
为人父母 适当引导就好
未来的路 还得他们自己去探寻 梧桐秋影 发表于 2024-3-13 19:36
这个现在对我来说，根本没有难度。呵呵
不敢苟同
梧桐秋影 发表于 2024-3-13 19:44
有些话不能在这儿说，说了他们以为我要把他们当客户了……。生命的奥秘当然是无止境的。我那么说是基于目 ...
健康平安就好
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