你知道“和光同尘”的真实含义吗?
<!----><style type="text/css">html{font-size:375%}</style><link href="https://pic.app.ytbbs.com/static/publish/css/style.css?v=1605251010502" rel="stylesheet" position="1" data-qf-origin="/static/publish/css/style.css?v=1605251010502"><!-- 付费贴--> <div class="preview_article "> <!----> <p>真正的修行不是让你与众不同,不是修“高人一等”,而是修“和光同尘”。</p><p>所谓的“和光同尘”,就是要把自己的锋芒毕露收起来,不突出自己,不露锋芒,与世无争,与大众一起,随波逐流,平凡同尘。</p><p>你所需要做的,就是避免纷争,悄悄地精进自己,悄悄地提纯自己,让一切顺其自然,让自己在成长中而显的特别平凡。</p><p>《道德经》曰:“挫其锐,解其纷,和其光,同其尘。”</p><p>老子的意思是说“挫锐解纷、和光同尘”是为人处世的最高境界。</p><p>人们应该像“道”那样,学会“藏”,就是能够顿挫自身的坚锐而不受任何损害,能够化解各种纷扰而不感到劳累,能够含蓄光耀而不被污染,能够混同尘垢而不失其本真。</p><p>所谓“藏”的智慧,就是告诫人们,为了不让自己愚笨无知的一面完全地暴露在他人面前,就要学会含蓄一点;为了不让自己的工作环境、人际关系变坏,就要学会宽容收敛一点。</p><p>曾国藩就是利用“和光同尘”的手法,巧妙的化解了他与左宗棠之间的矛盾,让左宗棠成为能够独当一面的得力大将。</p><p>“收敛锋芒,解除纷乱,含敛光耀,混同尘埃。”这便是老子心中理想的人格特征。</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pic.app.ytbbs.com/forum/20240222101255front1_0_173446_FsU1VX82dom-qgc6jIwk32w342Oo.jpg?watermark/3/text/QOeDn-mbqOS7u-W5s-eUn1M=/fontsize/400/dissolve/100/gravity/Center/fill/IzM2MzYzYQ==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/88/dy/10/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAueXRiYnMuY29tL3dhdGVyX2ltZ18yMDE4MTEyNl80NTEuanBn/dissolve/100/gravity/Center/dx/-34/dy/10" alt="" width="1080" height="1440" data-qf-origin="forum/20240222101255front1_0_173446_FsU1VX82dom-qgc6jIwk32w342Oo.jpg?watermark/3/text/QOeDn-mbqOS7u-W5s-eUn1M=/fontsize/400/dissolve/100/gravity/Center/fill/IzM2MzYzYQ==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/88/dy/10/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAueXRiYnMuY29tL3dhdGVyX2ltZ18yMDE4MTEyNl80NTEuanBn/dissolve/100/gravity/Center/dx/-34/dy/10" /></p><p class="empty_paragraph"> </p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pic.app.ytbbs.com/forum/20240222101255front1_0_173446_FsQ7XDKPazoiAFJathKfl_GmoiLy.jpg?watermark/3/text/QOeDn-mbqOS7u-W5s-eUn1M=/fontsize/400/dissolve/100/gravity/Center/fill/IzM2MzYzYQ==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/88/dy/10/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAueXRiYnMuY29tL3dhdGVyX2ltZ18yMDE4MTEyNl80NTEuanBn/dissolve/100/gravity/Center/dx/-34/dy/10" alt="" width="1080" height="1440" data-qf-origin="forum/20240222101255front1_0_173446_FsQ7XDKPazoiAFJathKfl_GmoiLy.jpg?watermark/3/text/QOeDn-mbqOS7u-W5s-eUn1M=/fontsize/400/dissolve/100/gravity/Center/fill/IzM2MzYzYQ==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/88/dy/10/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAueXRiYnMuY29tL3dhdGVyX2ltZ18yMDE4MTEyNl80NTEuanBn/dissolve/100/gravity/Center/dx/-34/dy/10" /></p><p class="empty_paragraph"> </p><p class="qf_image big noneditable " style="position: relative;" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pic.app.ytbbs.com/forum/20240222101255front1_0_173446_FqLgEuRU-rIlUz83HjY4btDj6MIT.jpg?watermark/3/text/QOeDn-mbqOS7u-W5s-eUn1M=/fontsize/400/dissolve/100/gravity/Center/fill/IzM2MzYzYQ==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/88/dy/10/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAueXRiYnMuY29tL3dhdGVyX2ltZ18yMDE4MTEyNl80NTEuanBn/dissolve/100/gravity/Center/dx/-34/dy/10" alt="" width="1080" height="1440" data-qf-origin="forum/20240222101255front1_0_173446_FqLgEuRU-rIlUz83HjY4btDj6MIT.jpg?watermark/3/text/QOeDn-mbqOS7u-W5s-eUn1M=/fontsize/400/dissolve/100/gravity/Center/fill/IzM2MzYzYQ==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/88/dy/10/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAueXRiYnMuY29tL3dhdGVyX2ltZ18yMDE4MTEyNl80NTEuanBn/dissolve/100/gravity/Center/dx/-34/dy/10" /></p><p class="empty_paragraph" style="min-height: 25px;"> </p> <!----></div>你以为是和光同尘,,实际上就是尘
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