无可奈何花落去，似曾相识燕归来？
<!----><style type="text/css">html{font-size:375%}</style><link href="https://pic.app.ytbbs.com/static/publish/css/style.css?v=1605251010502" rel="stylesheet" position="1" data-qf-origin="/static/publish/css/style.css?v=1605251010502"><!-- 付费贴--> <div class="preview_article "> <!----> <p>林徽因说: 下次再遇到喜欢的人，千万要记得只做朋友，不远不近的欣赏，淡淡的喜欢，不至于到最后乱了初心，败了芳华。</p><p>人世间，唯美的情谊是朋友，是知己，不远不近，虽淡如清水，却净若莲花。不占有，不嫉妒，不纠缠，不吃醋，静静地倾述心事，淡淡地喝茶聊天，随心，随意，不管你又爱了谁，失了谁，从来没有想得到，就不怕失去，不坠爱河，就无惧得失。</p><p>一旦打破了朋友的距离，从怦然心动那一刻始，其实，也是坠入爱之炼狱。</p><p>当你特别爱一个人的时候，你就很难再从他身上得到快乐了。因为会多疑，因为会猜忌，因为会胡思乱想。人的本性是爱一个人，就想完全占有，没有身份的占有欲会更可怕。他给你的痛苦，远远大于那丁点儿的快乐，这内心的煎熬会让你万劫不复。</p><p>若是你已为人夫，我已为人妇，有一万个见你的理由，却没有一个见你的身份，互相爱着，又怎样？进一步，是刀山火海；退一步，是万念俱灰；不进不退，是藕断丝连。</p><p>唯愿，没有跨出那一步，你静静地花开，满树芬芳；我淡淡地欣赏，莞尔一笑，有清水一泓在我们之间荡开......</p><p>很喜欢宫崎骏说的一句话：“你住的城市下雨了，很想问你有没有带伞？可是我忍住了，因为我怕你说没带，而我又无能为力，就像是我爱你，却给不了你想要的陪伴。”</p><p>“有花堪折直须折，莫待无花空折枝”， 一树繁花在室内是孤芳自赏，在室外才是最美的风景。</p><p>有时候，你觉得怎么也忘不掉一个人，或许只是因为，你忘不掉那些美好的时光，忘不掉穷尽一切付出的自己。</p><p>失恋，最可怕的地方，不是失去一个人，而是失去那个人的同时，也失去了你爱的能力，勇气和信心。 </p><p>对一天月，一径露，或是一杯茶，一缕风，静听花开花落，漫随云卷云舒！</p><p>最美的就在不经意间，太用力的都会失去，太在乎的不能长久，太圆满的终会残缺。</p><p>来生再遇见你，只做你的朋友，你的知己，成为你的一杯浅茶，共盈美好，同掬日月，浅酌慢饮。</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pic.app.ytbbs.com/forum/20240129065248front1_0_173446_FvoCj0JgsIoXoScDc3tUqgI_D0rS.jpg?watermark/3/text/QOeDn-mbqOS7u-W5s-eUn1M=/fontsize/400/dissolve/100/gravity/Center/fill/IzM2MzYzYQ==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/88/dy/10/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAueXRiYnMuY29tL3dhdGVyX2ltZ18yMDE4MTEyNl80NTEuanBn/dissolve/100/gravity/Center/dx/-34/dy/10" alt="" width="1080" height="1346" data-qf-origin="forum/20240129065248front1_0_173446_FvoCj0JgsIoXoScDc3tUqgI_D0rS.jpg?watermark/3/text/QOeDn-mbqOS7u-W5s-eUn1M=/fontsize/400/dissolve/100/gravity/Center/fill/IzM2MzYzYQ==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/88/dy/10/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAueXRiYnMuY29tL3dhdGVyX2ltZ18yMDE4MTEyNl80NTEuanBn/dissolve/100/gravity/Center/dx/-34/dy/10" 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留一份美好的回忆，缘来缘去皆是空。 问世间情为何物 新鲜感也就3个月，根本走不过去
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