爱情，在当今社会已经属于奢侈品了。
<!----><style type="text/css">html{font-size:375%}</style><link href="https://pic.app.ytbbs.com/static/publish/css/style.css?v=1605251010499" rel="stylesheet" position="1" data-qf-origin="/static/publish/css/style.css?v=1605251010499"><!-- 付费贴--> <div class="preview_article "> <!----> <p>杨绛说：“放弃一个很爱的人，如同生一场大病，病好了，却很难再快乐起来了。</p><p>后来，无论你遇见的人有多好，总是下意识的想要逃避，不是不会动心，而是不敢再爱。”这世上，并非所有爱情都能圆满落幕。</p><p>那些在爱情中受过伤害的人，即使已经与曾经的爱人断了联系，心中的伤 痕也难磨平。</p><p>入了心的人，便很难轻易忘记，人非草木，孰能无情。</p><p>深爱过的人，不可能说忘就忘。</p><p>我们在这段爱情中投入了感情，花了时间和精力去经营这份爱，心中必然是向往好的结局。在一段感情中，有些人意识到伴侣对自己态度转变，从事无巨细的关心到冷漠无情的指责，爱意已经逐渐消散。</p><p>在外人看来，结束这段感情才是最佳的选择。那么，为什么有些人还会苦苦的执着于这段感情，始终不愿意放手呢？答案很简单：舍不得。</p><p>两个人从相爱到形同陌路，中间必然有甜蜜的时光，让人回忆起来便觉得难忘。</p><p>正是因为舍不得彼此的情感，忘不了两人共同经历的风风雨雨，所以才很难干脆利落的告别。</p><p>所以我们无需给自己太大压力，一时间无法忘记深爱的人，是人之常情。</p><p>在漫长的岁月中，我们终会从不适合的爱情中脱离出来，将重心转移到自己的生活中。</p><p>有句话说的好：“过往，皆为序章。”</p><p>人这辈子，会遇到许多艰难坎坷，但不要因为爱情不如意，就灰心丧气。</p><p>爱情，只是生活的一部分。</p><p>用心对待生活的人，迟早会遇见最适合的爱情。</p><p>记得宫崎骏曾说：再爱一个人，若做不成夫妻，就这样处理。保持距离，彼此尊重 ；学会放下，慢慢释怀，找到曾经的自己 ……各自相忘，好好生活，保持不远不近的距离……如果爱，请深爱。不要让困难，成为爱的遗憾。</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pic.app.ytbbs.com/forum/20231208053839front1_0_173446_Fq8Z0JNvHq-W5ojkYFlSt9YPhoes.jpg?watermark/3/text/QOa9nOS8j-iAhQ==/fontsize/400/dissolve/100/gravity/Center/fill/IzM2MzYzYQ==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/57/dy/10/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAueXRiYnMuY29tL3dhdGVyX2ltZ18yMDE4MTEyNl80NTEuanBn/dissolve/100/gravity/Center/dx/-34/dy/10" alt="" width="976" height="1439" data-qf-origin="forum/20231208053839front1_0_173446_Fq8Z0JNvHq-W5ojkYFlSt9YPhoes.jpg?watermark/3/text/QOa9nOS8j-iAhQ==/fontsize/400/dissolve/100/gravity/Center/fill/IzM2MzYzYQ==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/57/dy/10/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAueXRiYnMuY29tL3dhdGVyX2ltZ18yMDE4MTEyNl80NTEuanBn/dissolve/100/gravity/Center/dx/-34/dy/10" 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遥遥领先的房价
日子举步维艰
没有健康的心灵
人很难遇到同类
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