生孩子到底有什么用？
<!----><style type="text/css">html{font-size:375%}</style><link href="https://pic.app.ytbbs.com/static/publish/css/style.css?v=1605251010499" rel="stylesheet" position="1" data-qf-origin="/static/publish/css/style.css?v=1605251010499"><!-- 付费贴--> <div class="preview_article "> <!----> <p>生孩子到底有什么用？有一位北大才女写出了这样一段话，在网上爆火，很值得父母深思。</p><p>她说：我钦佩一种父母，他们在孩子年幼时给予强烈的亲密。又在孩子长大后，学会得体的退出；照顾和分离，都是父母在孩子身上必须完成的任务。</p><p>亲子关系，不是一种恒久的占有，而是生命中一场深厚的缘分。我们既不能使孩子感到童年贫瘠，又不能让孩子觉得成年窒息；做为父母，是一场心胸和智慧的远行。</p><p>所以，生孩子到底是为了什么呢？是传宗接代还是养儿防老？今天终于听到一个令人感动和深思的答案。是为了付出与欣赏，不求孩子完美，也不用替我争脸，更不用帮我养老，只要这个生命健康存在，在这个美丽的世界上走一遍，让父母有机会与他同行一段。</p><p>我们终将慢慢的了解到，所谓父母、子女一场，只不过意味着你和他的缘分就是今生今世不断的目送他的背影渐行渐远，你站在小路的这一端，看着他逐渐消失在小路转弯的地方，而且他用背影默默地告诉你，不必追。</p><p>孩子们终会独立长大，我们希望他们都能在知识的海洋里遨游，而不是在知识的海洋里窒息。每个孩子夜晚回到家，那可是他能短暂停留的最温馨的港湾了。</p><p>换个方式去爱孩子吧，其实现如今孩子的压力，也并不比成年人生活上的压力小，对孩子多一些耐心，在一个家庭里能健康快乐的成长，就是孩子童年最大的幸运。这段话跟天下所有的父母共勉。</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img 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这都是对父母的要求，在父母学会得体的要退出时，孩子该怎样给父母得体的亲密呢，人是有感情的，互相之间不是该退出就能退出的，要怎样适度的退出是父母该考虑的问题，现在那么多啃老族而且啃的理所应当的孩子们，都是因为父母不想退出吗，所谓付出与欣赏，与要求孩子养老并不矛盾，父母与孩子是人类世界复杂又美好的情感之一，无法只要求一方做什么或者不做什么，人类这么高级复杂思维，都要带着责任和爱去生活 某种延续
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