自渡是一种能力，渡人是一种格局。
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<p>稻盛和夫说：“人性最大的愚蠢，就是相互为难，格局小的人，喜欢诋毁和嫉妒，因为我不好，我也不想让你好。格局大的人，就都懂得一个道理，强者互帮，弱者互撕。人生匆匆，自渡是一种能力，渡人就是一种格局。”</p><p>自古以来，众人拾柴火焰高，一人难挑千斤担，众人能移万座山。一个篱笆三个桩，一个好汉三个帮。团结就是力量。</p><p>真正格局大都懂得人帮人，互惠互利，诚信第一，合作共赢，才能走得更长久。</p><p>只有格局小的人，只看见眼前的三瓜两枣，就鼠目寸光，斤斤计较，人性的自私自利淋漓尽致展现出来。</p><p>人性最大的恶就是见不得他人好，人性最大的善就是不让他人为难。笑你无，恨你有，怕你富，嫌你穷，喜欢诋毁和嫉妒。</p><p>就如鲁迅先生说:“荒田无可耕，一耕有人争。肚里无食无人知，身上无衣受人欺。合伙租船船会漏，两家喂驴驴会瘦。”</p><p>只要有人的地方，就有人的私心杂念，世态炎凉，人情冷暖，人与人之间的争斗心理。</p><p>你也会看到人性的欺善怕恶，笑贫不笑娼，狗仗人势，狐假虎威，你争我夺，互不退让。穷在闹市无人问，富在深山有远亲。</p><p>《道德经》有言:“既以为人，己愈有；既以与人，己愈多。”</p><p>尽力照顾别人，自己反而充足，尽力给予别人，反而更丰富。</p><p>真正聪明的人都知道，你想要什么，就需要先付出什么。</p><p>你想要别人帮助你，你就需要先帮助他人，你想要收获更多的爱，你就需要付出爱。</p><p>只有格局小的人，只是一味的看着眼前的利益出发，而真正格局大的人早已经明白爱出者爱返，福往者福来这个道理。</p><p>卡耐基有说:“你希望别人怎么待你，你就该怎样的对待别人。”</p><p>世界就犹如一面哈哈镜，你对着镜子是什么表情，镜子也会回馈你什么表情。</p><p>我们对待身旁的人也是如此，你对他人展现出自私自利，狭隘的心理，那么别人就会对你提防，也不愿意与你合作来往。</p><p>这个世界上，人性的骨子里是自私，诋毁，嫉妒，善变，但是我们可以站在更高的维度看待，减少自私自利的心理。</p><p>在对的时空和空间达到合作共赢，减少不必要的矛盾和冲突，大家其乐融融，何乐而不为呢？</p><p>强者互帮，弱者互撕。任何时候，要把自己的格局和胸怀提升，海纳百川，有容乃大。</p><p>上善若水，厚德载物，自强不息，谦谦君子，温润如玉，自渡是一种能力，渡人是一种格局。</p><p 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