言多必有失，话痨是毛病，得改改……
<!----><style type="text/css">html{font-size:375%}</style><link href="https://pic.app.ytbbs.com/static/publish/css/style.css?v=1605251010499" rel="stylesheet" position="1" data-qf-origin="/static/publish/css/style.css?v=1605251010499"><!-- 付费贴--> <div class="preview_article "> <!----> <p>余华说：人与人之间交往一定要少说话，克制表达欲，平静温和就行，不自卑也别炫耀。不要为了获得共鸣就喋喋不休，说起话来没完没了。</p><p>无意间表达的品质被对方发现，才更招人喜欢，胜过千言万语。</p><p>你细想一下，你哪次的滔滔不绝后，带来的不是内心的悔恨。</p><p>是啊，人与人之间无论多么亲密的关系，只要是话多了一定是出问题，和家人聊天，刚开始浅聊的时候都很好，只要话开始变多，立刻就开始往争吵的方向发展。</p><p>跟外人聊天更是如此，刚开始聊天时，一定是心里话藏三分，慢慢聊着聊着，就把心里话全说出去了，说完后自己还懊悔真不该多嘴！</p><p>所以说，人啊一定要克制自己的表达欲，你看那聪明的人说话，该说话的时候，一两句话就能把事情说清楚，不该说话的时候，永远是竖着耳朵听别人表达。</p><p>慢慢你就会明白，话痨，其实就是一种极蠢的行为，你的多嘴，不仅得不到别人的同情，反而会让别人觉得反感，并且让自己变成一个毫无秘密的人。</p><p>永远记住一句话：你的热情，不是所有人都会喜欢，其实你在多数人的世界里，根本就是轻如豪毛。</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pic.app.ytbbs.com/forum/20231130142545front1_0_173446_Fn8u5vEtMslbEpArqti14qogromP.jpg?watermark/3/text/QOa9nOS8j-iAhQ==/fontsize/400/dissolve/100/gravity/Center/fill/IzM2MzYzYQ==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/57/dy/10/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAueXRiYnMuY29tL3dhdGVyX2ltZ18yMDE4MTEyNl80NTEuanBn/dissolve/100/gravity/Center/dx/-34/dy/10" alt="" width="1080" height="1440" data-qf-origin="forum/20231130142545front1_0_173446_Fn8u5vEtMslbEpArqti14qogromP.jpg?watermark/3/text/QOa9nOS8j-iAhQ==/fontsize/400/dissolve/100/gravity/Center/fill/IzM2MzYzYQ==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/57/dy/10/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAueXRiYnMuY29tL3dhdGVyX2ltZ18yMDE4MTEyNl80NTEuanBn/dissolve/100/gravity/Center/dx/-34/dy/10" /></p><p class="empty_paragraph"> </p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pic.app.ytbbs.com/forum/20231130142544front1_0_173446_FgKulw0cgiKbQp3DubTNvs0fQ6Es.jpg?watermark/3/text/QOa9nOS8j-iAhQ==/fontsize/400/dissolve/100/gravity/Center/fill/IzM2MzYzYQ==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/57/dy/10/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAueXRiYnMuY29tL3dhdGVyX2ltZ18yMDE4MTEyNl80NTEuanBn/dissolve/100/gravity/Center/dx/-34/dy/10" alt="" width="1440" height="1080" data-qf-origin="forum/20231130142544front1_0_173446_FgKulw0cgiKbQp3DubTNvs0fQ6Es.jpg?watermark/3/text/QOa9nOS8j-iAhQ==/fontsize/400/dissolve/100/gravity/Center/fill/IzM2MzYzYQ==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/57/dy/10/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAueXRiYnMuY29tL3dhdGVyX2ltZ18yMDE4MTEyNl80NTEuanBn/dissolve/100/gravity/Center/dx/-34/dy/10" /></p><p class="empty_paragraph"> </p><p class="qf_image big noneditable " style="position: relative;" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pic.app.ytbbs.com/forum/20231130142546front1_0_173446_Fn-8nG3JWNdjF1b18Pe43GDT_IW3.jpg?watermark/3/text/QOa9nOS8j-iAhQ==/fontsize/400/dissolve/100/gravity/Center/fill/IzM2MzYzYQ==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/57/dy/10/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAueXRiYnMuY29tL3dhdGVyX2ltZ18yMDE4MTEyNl80NTEuanBn/dissolve/100/gravity/Center/dx/-34/dy/10" alt="" width="1080" height="1440" data-qf-origin="forum/20231130142546front1_0_173446_Fn-8nG3JWNdjF1b18Pe43GDT_IW3.jpg?watermark/3/text/QOa9nOS8j-iAhQ==/fontsize/400/dissolve/100/gravity/Center/fill/IzM2MzYzYQ==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/57/dy/10/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAueXRiYnMuY29tL3dhdGVyX2ltZ18yMDE4MTEyNl80NTEuanBn/dissolve/100/gravity/Center/dx/-34/dy/10" /></p><p class="empty_paragraph" style="min-height: 25px;"> </p> <!----></div> 很有道理，学习了，确实是有时候话说着说着就多了。 嗯，这么一看，中午又说多话了，罪过罪过。 学习了
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