向上社交，向下兼容……
<!----><style type="text/css">html{font-size:375%}</style><link href="https://pic.app.ytbbs.com/static/publish/css/style.css?v=1605251010499" rel="stylesheet" position="1" data-qf-origin="/static/publish/css/style.css?v=1605251010499"><!-- 付费贴--> <div class="preview_article "> <!----> <p>稻盛和夫：“一个人提升自己最快的方式，就是跟比你优秀的人在一起。有时，认识一个优秀的人，就是为自己多打开一扇窗。因为他会把新的见识、新的看法、新的理念，在不经意中表达出来，然后给你带来新的成长和进步。”</p><p>居必择邻，交必良友，择善人而交，择君子而处。与凤凰同飞，必是俊鸟；与虎狼同行，必是猛兽。想要成为智者，就需与智者同行，想要成为高人，便要与高人为伍。</p><p>与胜己者在一起，养识；与德盛者在一起，养志；与直言者在一起，养心；与趣味者在一起，养人。</p><p>正如古语所说：“与善人居，如入芝兰之室，久而不闻其香，即与之化矣；与不善人居，如入鲍鱼之肆，久而不闻其臭，亦与之化矣。” </p><p>你是谁，决定了你会遇见谁，你遇见谁，决定了你就会成为什么样的人。一个人遇到的人和事，其实都是自身特质吸引来的。</p><p>《易经·乾卦》中讲：“同声相应，同气相求。” 物以类聚，人以群分，越是优秀的人，越喜欢向优秀的人靠近；越是优秀的人，越能遇见更优秀的别人。故君子务本，本立而道生。</p><p>做最优秀的自己，才能遇见更好的别人，当你自身暗淡无光，身边只会一片漆黑，当你光芒万丈，身边才会闪耀无比。 子曰：“三人行，必有我师焉：择其善者而从之，其不善者而改之。”</p><p>瓜无滚圆，人无十全，尺有所短，寸有所长。我们每个人都会有缺陷，所以，真正厉害的人，都懂得和别人的优点相处。</p><p>用人之长，天下无不用之人；用人之短，天下无可用之人，和别人的优点相处，取长补短，是一种本事、一种境界，更是一种智慧。</p><p>与人相处的三种境界：向上社交，与强者为伍；向下兼容，体弱者不足；向内安放，享独处之乐。</p><p>尼采曾说：“人来到这世上，就应该跟最好的人，最美的事物，最芬芳的灵魂倾心相见，唯此才不负生命一场。”</p><p>往后余生，愿你同灵魂有趣的人结交，和简单淳朴的人相处，如果没有，愿你成为自己的太阳。</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pic.app.ytbbs.com/forum/20231127064523front1_0_173446_FqZbzcYvJyqIyNeUNtpyQME5ce2j.jpg?watermark/3/text/QOa9nOS8j-iAhQ==/fontsize/400/dissolve/100/gravity/Center/fill/IzM2MzYzYQ==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/57/dy/10/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAueXRiYnMuY29tL3dhdGVyX2ltZ18yMDE4MTEyNl80NTEuanBn/dissolve/100/gravity/Center/dx/-34/dy/10" alt="" width="3024" height="4032" 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