每天有太多的人沉浸在低级的快乐中
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<p>董宇辉:“打游戏、刷短视频当然很爽,但爽完后是极度的空虚;早起跑步、啃专业书当然很累,但累完后是满满的幸福。”</p><p>低级的快乐放纵即可获得,高级的的快乐,只有克制才能达到。真正的自由是自律的自由,自律是人生信条,行动是最好的自我救赎。</p><p>毁掉一个人的最好方式,让他对低级快乐成瘾。所有那些看起来很爽的东西,都是瞬间的感觉,这种毫无营养的低级快乐,会无形之中慢慢拖垮他。</p><p>打游戏、短视频、游戏、偶像剧这些或许就是低级快乐。这些快乐可以让人轻易获得,而又沉迷其中,过后让人极度空虚毫无所获。</p><p>快乐是不能走捷径的,所有的快乐都意味着艰辛的努力。人类所有真实的快乐,一定是恒久的努力。</p><p>正如罗素所说:“人的放纵是本能,自律才是修行,短时间让你快乐的东西,一定能够让你感到痛苦,反之,那些让你痛苦的东西,最终都能让你功成名就。”</p><p>快乐只是责任的副产品,脱离责任去追求快乐,最后得到的一定是痛苦。而通过勤奋和努力实现的更广阔的人生,那样的自由才是珍贵的、有价值的。</p><p>稻盛和夫曾说:“把时间放在床上,成就了体重;把时间放在书上,成就了智慧;把时间放在锻炼,成就了健康;把时间放在勤劳,成就了财富。</p><p>把时间放在市场,成就了事业;把时间放在家庭,成就了亲情;行动在哪里,收获就在哪里,心用在哪里,风景就在哪里,提升自控力,才能掌控人生。”</p><p>低级的欲望,通过放纵便可得到;高级的欲望,通过自律方能得到;顶级的欲望,通过煎熬可能得到。</p><p>这世上哪有什么一蹴而就的成功,所有逆袭都是有备而来,所有光芒都需要时间才能被看到,一切幸运都是努力埋下的伏笔。</p><p>自律本身不是目的,而是一种对美好人生的追求和向往。成年人顶级的自律是读书,存钱,运动。读书,可以滋养你的心灵;存钱,可以保障你的未来;运动,可以强壮你的身体。</p><p>自律的前期是兴奋,中期是痛苦,后期是享受。如果觉得一下子改变很难,我们不妨从小处着手,早起10分钟、每天坚持读书、每天坚持存钱,每周适度运动,只要能坚持一段时间,自律所带来的益处,终会让你迎来华丽的蜕变。往后余生,愿我们把自律变成本能,收获向上的人生。</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" 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他高高在上,年薪千万,谈笑间把钱挣了
绝大多数人,上了一天班,送了一天外卖,有的甚至是三班倒
浑身累的要死,仅剩的时间不睡觉 不休息 不刷刷视频娱乐一下干什么?
还跑步呢 还锻炼呢 还有闲工夫读书呢
这和何不食糜有什么区别?经济大环境如此之差,大多数百姓也只是含泪活着
董大少拜托贫困后,已经忘了本,忘了他当初苦逼是的时光 GEYUN88 发表于 2023-11-20 08:45
董的虎狼之词在网上被一顿骂
原因很简单,他太容易把自己带入群体了
他高高在上,年薪千万,谈笑间把钱挣 ...
鸡汤喝多了,很正常。没有多少书是描绘人间疾苦, 说的很好 高级的老百姓做的了吗 低级的快乐?降低欲望,幸福感来得容易些不好吗? 怎么快乐怎么活着,认知不同,没有对错。 你送钱给他,他还说你是**
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