你身边还有那种没有丝毫利益牵扯、纯粹的友谊吗？
<!----><style type="text/css">html{font-size:375%}</style><link href="https://pic.app.ytbbs.com/static/publish/css/style.css?v=1605251010499" rel="stylesheet" position="1" data-qf-origin="/static/publish/css/style.css?v=1605251010499"><!-- 付费贴--> <div class="preview_article "> <!----> <p>莫言说过：一个人混到最后，一个朋友也没有，往往只说明了一个问题：他身上没有值得别人交往的价值。</p><p>茫茫人海，知己难寻，单纯真挚的友情很少见，我们身边交往的人貌似关系不错，实际不过是价值的交换。</p><p>穷在闹市无人问，富在深山有远亲。这也道出了人性中嫌贫爱富，趋利避害的本性。</p><p>其实人性都是很恶心的，很多人都不会因为你爱TA而来爱你，对方只会因为你优秀而来爱你，你的价值就是你的一切。</p><p>记得稻盛和夫说过：赚不到钱，不是因为你懒，而是因为你的能量太低。</p><p>高能量的人有这三个特征：第一、敢于把一切不可能变成可能；第二、行动力非常强，说到做到；第三、内心非常正能量！</p><p>一个太过文艺的人，注定不会太快乐，心里有爱、有善良，骨子里住着孩子般的纯真，但也往往多愁善感，容易感知美好，也更容易体会悲伤，他喜欢文字，但往往也不善言辞，不是文字太少，而是感受很多。</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img 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我有不少线上的朋友，经常在新浪chatroom，在ICQ上聊天。直到今天，依旧在一起聊天。只是换成了微信（经常存活几个月被封了，再建，再封，再拉）。每年还会聚会，为了聚会从北美，南美，西欧回来。 start2988 发表于 2023-11-18 11:32我有不少线上的朋友，经常在新浪chatroom，在ICQ上聊天。直到今天，依旧在一起聊天。只是换成了微信（经常 ...
谈论政治了 潜伏者 发表于 2023-11-18 06:01
有句话叫：富能引贵。尤其是身弱的人，更需要穿金戴银，精致每一天。通过打扮自己的外在，增强自己的底气， ...
有才华的人，会和有才华的人惺惺相惜！！！ 虎山居士 发表于 2023-11-18 11:23
越来越少，越来越不想和人交往，我不算计别人，不代表别人不算计我，看出用心了，就会下意识远离自保。
趋利避害人的本能。 肯定有啊，没有利益关系，但是一样出来吃饭，玩的人，还能找不到吗？
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