人生本过客，何须千千结？
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<p>莫言说：“退休后才发现，什么同事、同学、朋友，都是人生过客，最终都会全军覆没。什么攀比、计较、面子，都越来越没有意义，都是些折磨人的东西。”</p><p>人生就像一趟列车，有人上车，就会有人下车，这中间没有一个人，能够一直陪你走完全程，真正到达终点的那一刻，往往车上只剩下你自己。</p><p>任何关系都是阶段性的，同事关系再好，一旦分开去到不同的公司，也会慢慢断了联系。</p><p>朋友关系再好，一旦产生利益冲突，或者各自结识了新的朋友，曾经的友情，也会慢慢被时间冲淡。</p><p>昔日年少的同学，当初哪怕关系再好，回头看看，他们也只存在于回忆里，不信你看同学聚会，所有关系都变了味。</p><p>人生匆匆几十年，所有来到你生命里的人，不过都是时间的过客，有些人不用挽留，有些人想留也留不住。</p><p>来时欣然接受，去时亦不强求，人走茶凉才是社会常态。</p><p>经历的越多，你会慢慢发现，什么攀比、计较、面子，除了折磨自己，没有其他任何意义。</p><p>人比人气死人，一个人如果攀比心太重，就容易变得烦躁、焦虑，甚至变得越来越自卑，内心填满了物质和欲望，就很难体会到真正的快乐。</p><p>一个人如果总是斤斤计较，不但会败光人缘，还会到处得罪人，为难别人的同时，也在折磨自己。</p><p>一个人如果太在乎面子，不自觉的就活成了别人眼里的样子，而忘记了最初的那个自己。</p><p>什么同事、同学、朋友，都是人生过客，父母和家人才是你的全部，什么攀比、计较、面子，没有任何意义，活的开心洒脱，活出自己，才是人生该有的样子。</p><p>有时我常觉得，人活着就像在泥地上行走，太过云淡风轻。回过头就会遗憾什么都没留下，连个脚印都没有，但是心里装的东西太重，一不小心就会陷进去，难以自拔。</p><p>人生如朝露，亦如梦似烟，虚幻短暂，仿佛白驹过隙，一晃眼无常到来，最终带不走荣华富贵，取不走人间任何一物，四大假合灭亡，唯有业随身。家财万贯，日食不过三餐；广厦千间，夜眠仅需六尺。人赤祼祼投生凡间，命终之时也丝毫取不走富贵荣华，真的也只有业随身。</p><p>终有一天，你会感谢所有折磨你的人和事。折磨就是锻炼，没有受过折磨，我们不会成长，不会变得成熟，也不会拥有智慧。不要被所有的折磨打倒，你要用这些折磨来自我提升。长夜哭泣之后，你会感谢所有折磨过你的人。因为是他们成就了你。</p><p 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