福不可享尽，因为物极必反……
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<p>弘一法师说:“人生最忌讳的就是过于圆满，不信你看看身边的人，有人婚姻不好，但是子女很优秀，有人婚姻很好，但他的身体不太好，有人事业很顺，但是家庭不和睦，有人家庭和睦，日子却过的很清贫。</p><p>人生最好的状态就是求缺不求满，福不可享尽，让三分给他人，利不可占尽，留三分给他人，功不可贪尽，分三分给他人，若福禄寿俱全，就布施送给他人。”</p><p>月满则亏，水满则溢，盛极必衰，过犹不及。世间根本没有圆满，万物都是在变，白昼黑夜，刮风有时，下雨有时，晴天有时，雨雪霏霏有时，春夏秋冬，四季更替。</p><p>我们是时光行走的人，生而渺小，如蝼蚁，沙尘，十分的微不足道，心比天高，命比纸薄。</p><p>心里却十分渴望十全十美，世间的好物都能收入囊中，渴望婚姻好，孩子听话，身体好，有钱，有房，有车，又年轻又漂亮，最好是长生不老。</p><p>然而世间好物不坚牢，彩云易散琉璃脆。人生很多时候，失之东隅，收之桑榆，塞翁失马焉知非福，得此失彼，没有哪样会十分完美的。</p><p>有人有事业、有钱，但是婚姻不好。有人婚姻不好，但是子女优秀。有人身体好，但是没有很多钱。有人长得漂亮，但是没有一个好的归宿。</p><p>老子有言：“知足不辱，知止不殆，可以长久。”</p><p>懂得满足就不会受到屈辱，懂得适可而止，就不会遇见危险，这样才能长长久久。</p><p>作为一个人，我们要懂得知足常乐，知足者富。一个不知足的人，就像一个贪婪的乞丐，永远贪婪无度，没有任何幸福感可言。</p><p>懂得知足的人，在平平淡的生活里，都能感受到美好，懂得接受当下一切，在现有的基础上感受生活带来的快乐和知足。</p><p>《警世通言》有言：“势不可使尽，福不可享尽，便宜不可占尽，聪明不可用尽。”</p><p>人的一生，无论是你的权势、福分、便宜、聪明都需要保持一个度，一旦过头就容易惹出祸端。</p><p>逢人只说三分话，不可全抛一片心。话不可说尽，事不可做绝，需留点他人方便，日后好相见。</p><p>正可谓是“满招损，谦受益”，人生任何时候都忌讳太满，谦虚一点，凡事要自满，张弛有度，过犹不及。</p><p>作为人，求缺不求满，万事万物把握一个度，知足常乐，你会幸福无比。</p><p>在有余力的基础，帮助需要帮助的人，把爱洒出去，你也会收获更多的爱，从而你更热爱这个美丽的世界！</p><p 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