你身边那种以貌取人的人多吗？
<!----><style type="text/css">html{font-size:375%}</style><link href="https://pic.app.ytbbs.com/static/publish/css/style.css?v=1605251010499" rel="stylesheet" position="1" data-qf-origin="/static/publish/css/style.css?v=1605251010499"><!-- 付费贴--> <div class="preview_article "> <!----> <p>稻盛和夫曾说：“当一个人不尊重你时，不要沟通，也不要愤怒，只需要做到两件事：无视和远离。”</p><p>一个人不尊重你，从骨子里就是没有把你放在眼里，打心眼就是不认可你，才会有他的趾高气扬，嚣张跋扈。</p><p>以貌取人，狗眼看人低，狗仗人势，嫌贫爱富，趋炎附势，趋利避害，不尊重你，其实都是有原因的，只是你对于他人来说没有任何利益可言。</p><p>胡适说：“人性最大的恶，恨你有、笑你无，嫌你穷、怕你富。国人与国人第一次见面，就打量对方的身份、身价，然后再选择，是给对方跪着、还是让对方给他跪着”。 </p><p>人与人之间，初次见面，都是上下打量，看看对方是处于什么地位，如若你的地位高于他人，你身上有足够的权势、资源、能力，可以为对方带来好处。</p><p>那么对方一定会对你客气三分，毕恭毕敬，阿谀奉承，各种谄媚，殷勤至极，关怀备至。</p><p>你会发现吧，人性现实，以貌取人，除了看你的外貌，还看背后的能力和实力，决定是否如何对待你。</p><p>你看流落在大街上的乞丐，衣不蔽体，饥不择食，身上散发出难闻的味道，人们嗤之以鼻，绕道而行。</p><p>当你穷一次，落魄一次，你也会知道，人性的现实，不看你曾经辉煌腾达，有多少人仰望，一旦你落魄了，门前再无几人。</p><p>一朝马死黄金尽，亲者如路人。人得意时须尽欢，莫使金樽空对月。有花堪折直须折，莫待无花空折枝。</p><p>人生很多时候，别人不尊重你，都是很正常的，说白了就是你身上没有价值可言，他人压根不放在心里，你的段位低于他人。</p><p>其实也不必难过，人性都是这样，非常正常。有朝一日，你飞黄腾达之时，他人照样会对你刮目相看的。</p><p>《简爱》有一句话：“我越是孤独，越是没有朋友，越是没有人支持，我就得越尊重我自己。”</p><p>别人不尊重你，不理睬你不重要，无视和远离就好。前提一定要尊重自己，越是在无人问津，越要把自己当一个贵宾对待。</p><p>古语有言：“自重者然后人重，人轻者便是自轻。”</p><p>一个自己看重的人，他人才会看重，一个被人轻视的人，一定是自己轻视自己。</p><p>一个人怎么样，不在于外界如何评价，而在于是否相信自己，尊重自我，认同自己。</p><p>当你的自信无需从外界获得，他人如何看待你都不重要，重要的是你自己能守心自暖，散发出属于个人魅力和光芒，你也会成为一个受人欢迎的人物！</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img 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