人生，悲喜自渡，他人难悟……
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<p>鲁迅先生：“楼下一个男人病得要死，隔壁的一家唱着留声机；对面是哄孩子；楼上有两人狂笑；还有打牌声。河中的船上有女人哭着她死去的母亲。人类的悲欢并不相通，我只觉得他们吵闹。”</p><p>这个世界上，没有人真正可以对另一个人的伤痛感同身受。你万箭穿心，你痛不欲生，也仅仅是你一个人的事。人类的悲欢并不相通，悲喜自渡是人生必修课。</p><p>现实就是这样，板子不打在自己身上，是不知道疼的。只要不是死了自家人，也是可以慷他人之慨的。真扯到自己身上来了，宽容也没有了，慈悲也没有了。</p><p>我们总是想要找到能为自己分担痛苦和悲伤的人，可大多数时候，我们那些惊天动地的伤痛，在别人眼里，不过是随手拂过的尘埃。成年人的世界没有那么多感同身受，只是苦乐自渡，冷暖自知。</p><p>正如三毛所说：“心之何如，有似万丈迷津，遥亘千里，其中并无舟子可渡人，除了自渡，他人爱莫能助。”</p><p>人生的路，靠自己一步一步去走，真正能保护你的，是你自己的人生选择。成人的世界里，藏不住的崩溃只是伤痕，藏起来的崩溃才是勋章。</p><p>杨绛先生曾写道：“这个世上没有不带伤的人，无论什么时候，你都要相信真正能治愈你的，只有自己。不去抱怨，不怕孤单，努力沉淀。世间皆苦，唯有自渡。生活，一半烟火，一半清欢人生，一半清醒，一半释然愿你内心山河壮阔，始终相信人间值得。”</p><p>世上每个人都在负重前行，学会接受和承担，才能越走越轻松。工作的委屈，不要逢人就说；感情的苦水，不要逢人就吐；生活的难处，不要逢人就诉。</p><p>靠人者自困，靠己者自渡。站在树上的鸟，从来不怕树枝断裂，因为它依赖的不是树枝，而是翅膀。自己的安全感，别人永远给不了，你想要的一切，要靠自己成全。</p><p>佛说：“一切法，为度一切心，若无一切心，何用一切法？”</p><p>人生真的没有完美答案，所做所为，好与不好，全靠一颗自悟修为的心。内心若不种满鲜花，就会长满杂草。世间疗愈的，都是愿意自渡的人。</p><p>人间万千光景，苦乐喜忧，跌宕起伏，除了自渡，其他人爱莫能助。假如生命是一条孤独的河流，那么，你灵魂的摆渡人只能是自己。</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img 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