无人与我立黄昏，无人问我粥可温。
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<p>杨绛先生："不要过度窥探你的老公，好的婚姻都是各过各的，绝对的忠诚是不存在的。该演的戏要演，该装的糊涂得装，该和解的和解，该牵线的牵线。婚姻本是一场合作，谁先睁眼，谁就输了。"</p><p>人生在世，难得的不仅是人间清醒，还有难得糊涂。该清醒时清醒，才能海阔天空；该糊涂时糊涂，方得余地无穷。</p><p>心理学上有个著名的效应叫“野马结局”：非洲草原上的野马，经常被吸血蝙蝠攻击，进而死去。可是，动物学家发现，吸血蝙蝠所吸的血量极少，不足以使野马死去，野马的死因其实是它的暴怒和狂奔。也就是说，野马是“气死的”。</p><p>活得糊涂的人，容易幸福；活得清醒的人，容易烦恼。哪个家庭不存在一些磕磕碰碰？可家终究是个讲道理更讲感情的地方，如果每件事情都要分个对错，事事斤斤计较、互相责备，只会让人心越来越远、矛盾越来越深。</p><p>王志文曾说：“只要你分清了什么是值得和不值得，你就不会轻易被激怒。当对方的人和事配不上你消耗的精力的时候，你就无谓自降身价得不偿失。所以，平和不只是脾气好，而是头脑好。”</p><p>聪明是天赋，糊涂却是一种难得的智慧。糊涂不是装聋作哑，而是不计较、不纠缠。那些不触犯原则底线的小爱好、小事情，彼此退一步，用装傻解决生活里鸡毛蒜皮的小事，日子才能过得风生水起。</p><p>人生就是减法，见一面少一面，活一天就少一天，有什么好恼怒的呢？在变老的路上善待自己，糊涂一点不较真，大度一点不生气，凡事看淡，一切随缘，人生本过客，何必千千结。</p><p>生活里的大风大浪毕竟是少数，那些融在柴米油盐的温暖才最令人动容。很多时候你糊涂一点，我装一下傻，彼此包容，互相疼爱与尊重，就会发现幸福就在身边。</p><p>大事清醒些，小事糊涂些，才是一个家庭幸福的秘诀。事事争辩，困扰自己，样样争夺，惹来麻烦。往后余生愿你我用大智若愚，换生活安宁，靠糊里糊涂，赢一生幸福。</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img 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