改掉你的坏脾气吧，是提高个人修养的开始……
<!----><style type="text/css">html{font-size:375%}</style><link href="https://pic.app.ytbbs.com/static/publish/css/style.css?v=1605251010499" rel="stylesheet" position="1" data-qf-origin="/static/publish/css/style.css?v=1605251010499"><!-- 付费贴--> <div class="preview_article "> <!----> <p>王志文有一句经典台词：“高手是没有情绪的，动不动就生气的人，没有一个人智者，真正的高手是说软话做狠事。”</p><p>人群中，脾气最好的人，往往最可怕；人群中最安静的人，往往最有实力。</p><p>懂得示弱的人，都是聪明人；不提条件的人，野心可能大到可怕；认知越低的人，越爱从别人身上找原因。</p><p>不要动不动就气愤，所有的气愤都是愚蠢的，高手心里就只有一件事，解决问题，解决不了换办法再试，也不要被情绪给带偏。</p><p>真正的高手是说软话、做狠事。</p><p>微笑和沉默是两个有效的武器，微笑能解决很多问题，沉默能避免许多问题。</p><p>如果你是对的，没必要发脾气；如果你是错的，没有资格发脾气；弱者易怒如虎，强者平静如水； 本事不大，脾气就不要太大。</p><p>没有收拾残局的能力，就别放纵善变的情绪；谁掌控了情绪，谁就能掌握一切。</p><p>轻装上阵，不生气其实很简单；把脾气拿出来那是本能；把脾气收回去才叫本事；头等人，有本事，没脾气；中等人，有本事，有脾气；末等人，没本事，有脾气。</p><p> 改变坏脾气最釜底抽薪的方法，就是提高个人修养。</p><p>如果一个人时刻都能保持平静、纯洁的心灵，生活的任何不如意，都不能激起他心湖的一丝涟漪。</p><p>很喜欢的一段话：不要和父母争论对错，父母老了，要孝敬。不要和爱人计较长短，爱人很累，要包容。不要和孩子发泄情绪，孩子还小，要教育。幸福的家，少责怪，多包容，少讲理，多讲爱，少埋怨，多感恩！把最好的脾气留给最亲的人，家才是最终的归宿，家人才是永远的依靠！</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" 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