当你老了，你最大的依赖是什么？
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<p>莫言曾说：“当你老了，躺在病床上，无依无靠的时候，你就会明白：这辈子最亲的，并非血脉至亲，而是你身上拥有的三样东西。”</p><p>第一样东西是钱财，无论你的处境如何，钱都会帮助你，绝不会背叛你。第二样东西是永不被困难打败的精神，它是支撑你活下去的力量，信念和勇气。第三样东西是感恩的心态，接受老天给予的一切，顺应天意，不破坏上天的规则。</p><p>王小波说：“人在年轻的时候到处都是人，别人的事就是你的事。到了中年以后才觉得，世界上除了家人，已经一无所有了。当你逐渐老去，你会发现一切人与事儿都跟你渐行渐远。”</p><p>到老了以后，才知道最亲的人只有伴侣，最贵的东西只有自己的生命。</p><p>善待自己的伴侣是人生最好的投资，依靠自己是人生最大的底牌，守住健康是人生最大的财富。婚姻的意义体现在人生的暗处，伴侣在你跌落低谷时，鼓励、安慰你，在你承受病痛时，照顾、守护你，在你大多数时候包容、理解你。</p><p>人这一辈子走到底，最终的归宿是自己。若总依靠别人，终有一天会无人可依。与其指望儿女、亲戚，不如做自己人生的摆渡人，活得潇洒又自在。健康是幸福的源头，守住健康才能守住人生。照顾好自己是后半生最重要的事情。</p><p>钱财再多，多不过生命；名利再大，大不过健康。人间的饭，吃一碗少一碗；人间的面，见一面少一面。青春才几年，疫情就已经占了三年。疫情反反复复仿佛在提醒我们：人生，本就是一次次减法，来日并不方长。我们总以为来日方长，却忘记了事事无常。哪有什么岁月静好，你自己安好，伴侣无恙，便是这世上最静好的时光。</p><p>人生就是这样，没有得到的东西，总觉得是最好的，正在拥有的却不懂珍惜，等到失去之后才追悔莫及。感恩生命，感谢岁月，好好生活，乐观向上，珍惜今天，拥抱未来。</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img 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是的，最关键要有个好身体才行。要不也没命花啊。 人的一生有两个健康，一是身体健康，二是心理健康！在两个基础上，就是财了！ 政府的社保
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