负重忍辱、韬光养晦、厚积而薄发！
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<p>梁晓声在《人世间》中写道：“千万别相信什么是金子总会发光的，那全都是鬼话，根据我三十多年的人生经验，哪怕是一块破抹布给盖住了，那这金子都永世不得发光。就一句话，机会来了，牢牢抓住。”</p><p>每个人都是一块金子，金子会发光这也无可厚非，但是，你要懂得在阳光下熠熠生辉，不要等到被一块破布盖住，即便你再有光芒，也会被埋没。</p><p>很多时候，不是我们不够优秀，而是却少的是机会，就如同，好酒也怕巷子深。</p><p>当机会来临，你才能说是金子才会发光。我们需要做的，就是把握住机会，因为机不可失时不再来。</p><p>人生中的机会稍纵即逝，即便是好运也就那么那么一点，抓不住一辈子也就错过了，因此，让自己积极主动才不会失去机会。</p><p>韩愈《马说》有曰：“千里马常有，而伯乐不常有。”</p><p>如果自己是一匹千里马，也需要有伯乐发现。如果没有伯乐，故虽有名马，祇辱于奴隶人之手，骈死于槽枥之间，不以千里称也。</p><p>有时候，即便我们是金子，也要看有没有贵人帮你把身上那块破抹布拿掉。</p><p>在这个泥沙俱下的世界里，是金子如果没有机会，也会被埋没，若是拿不掉身上的破布，也就永远没有见光之日。</p><p>如果说世界是各大舞台，那么，自己若是身怀绝技，也要有机会上台表演才行，如果没有一个施展身手的平台，你的才华也只能是被淹没。</p><p>一个人的成功在很大程度上取决于是否有一个适合自己的平台人，或是有贵人相助，不过自己也要有真本事。</p><p>人活着，除了努力，就是要等待机会，如果机会来了自己还没准备好，那就抓不住机会，错失良机，即便自己是金子也是无济于事。</p><p>罗曼·罗兰说：“要散布阳光到别人心里，先得自我心里有阳光。”</p><p>打铁需得自身硬，所以，一个优秀人，从来都是默默积蓄力量，厚积薄发，养精蓄锐，潜龙在渊，为机会而有所准备。</p><p>只有这样，当机会来临才能争取抓住，若有贵人相助，也会发出自己的光芒。</p><p>机会都是给有准备的人准备的，即使一个人拥有再优秀的才能和才华，如果抓不住机遇，没有施展才华的舞台，也无法展现出来。</p><p>因此，我们应该不断完善自我，充实自己，丰盈生命，以饱满的热情抓住每一个可能的机会，不悲不怨。</p><p>是金子总会发光，但金子也有蒙尘的时候，我们奋斗一生，若是身上的破布扯不掉，也要活好自己，不负生命就行了。</p><p 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