你认为一个家庭最大的悲哀是什么？
<!----><style type="text/css">html{font-size:375%}</style><link href="https://pic.app.ytbbs.com/static/publish/css/style.css?v=1605251010499" rel="stylesheet" position="1" data-qf-origin="/static/publish/css/style.css?v=1605251010499"><!-- 付费贴--> <div class="preview_article "> <!----> <p>—个家庭最大的悲哀，就是把日子过反了！学会捋清顺序，家庭才会走向兴旺！</p><p>第一：是工作放在第一位，孩子放在第二位。在教育孩子的时候，你选择了赚钱，不去管教孩子。等孩子长大了，你辛辛苦苦挣一辈子的钱，都抵不过他败家一年。</p><p>没有非挣不可的票子，也没有非去不可的饭局，只有忽然长大的孩子。孩子成长道路上缺席的父母，最后都会付出惨痛的代价。</p><p>第二：是对外人和气，对家人发脾气。我们对待外人，总是能和颜悦色，彬彬有礼，对待最亲近的家人，却甩着脸色，说着伤人的话。</p><p>殊不知，这样只会让家人的心，寒上三分。念叨多了、批评多了、指责多了，换谁心里都不好受，更何况是家人。把脾气收一收，对家人好一点。家是讲爱的地方，不是情绪的垃圾场。脾气人人有，拿出来是本能，压下去才是本事。控制住自己的情绪，和善对家人，是一个人最该有的修养。</p><p>第三：是小事计较，大事糊涂。一个家庭处理事情的态度，直接决定了这个家庭的幸福程度。幸福的家庭，从不在小事上内耗，彼此睁只眼闭只眼。可在大事上，他们丝毫不马虎，会征求多种意见，做出合理性的决策。</p><p>不幸的家庭往往本末倒置，小事上纠缠不休，大事上稀里糊涂，一拍脑门就决定了，导致家庭丧失了很多机会。大事不糊涂，小事不计较，是非分明又相互包容，才是一个家应有的样子。</p><p>牢记这三点：孩子教育比一时得失重要，永远把家人放在第一位，小事不内耗，大事不糊涂，遇事好商量，有事一起扛，这样的家庭，再穷再难都是暂时的，家和万事兴，飞黄腾达是早晚的事！</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" 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我认为最大的悲哀就是阴盛阳衰！
阳是怎么衰的？ 说的好 惯子，特别是没有那个条件还惯子
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