张爱玲的《倾城之恋》，你看过吗？
<!----><style type="text/css">html{font-size:375%}</style><link href="https://pic.app.ytbbs.com/static/publish/css/style.css?v=1605251010499" rel="stylesheet" position="1" data-qf-origin="/static/publish/css/style.css?v=1605251010499"><!-- 付费贴--> <div class="preview_article "> <!----> <p>张爱玲说：男人憧憬着一个女人的身体的时候， 就关心到她的灵魂，自己骗自己说是爱上了她的灵魂。唯有占领了她的身体之后， 他才能够忘记她的灵魂， 也许这是唯一的解脱的方法。</p><p>这句话出自张爱玲的散文《倾城之恋》，它犀利地点出了很多人内心的虚伪。当一个男人憧憬女人的身体时，他会自我欺骗地认为自己爱她的灵魂。但真正拥有了她之后，那见不得光的虚伪面目就暴露了出来。经历了这件事，让人明白了很多道理。</p><p>我们都会犯错， 但更重要的是学习， 倾听内心，不要轻易被表象迷惑。就像梁实秋说的：“我需要真诚的眼泪，而不需要委婉的微笑。”</p><p>因为总会有人，嫌你不够好，也总有人，觉得你哪里都好。我们都不完美，也永远讨不好所有人，那就做好自己就行。</p><p>努力成为一个很哇塞的自已，心情很哇塞，气质很哇塞，身材很哇塞，生活也很哇塞！你又不差，慢慢来。努力经营当下，直至未来明朗。</p><p>有人认为：男女之间的感情是一半是睡出来的，另一半是聊出来的，不聊不睡自然就断了。在这个快餐式的年代，喜欢又怎样？上了床又怎样？</p><p>虽然暧昧那一会儿像极了爱情，可它终究不过是个网络。网一关，好友一删，便是一别两宽。好多人都觉得是相见恨晚，一聊一睡就觉得遇上一个懂自己的人，其实一切都是自以为是。哪有那么多天长地久，说好的一辈子，其实就是一阵子，人生皆是过客。</p><p>一见钟情，只不过是见色起义。日久生情，只不过是权衡利弊。爱情这东西，最后终会败于现实！愿我们都能找到真挚的爱和幸福。</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" 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