猎隼中队长 发表于 2023-9-11 07:03

当你足够强大时,身边全是“好人”。

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<p>巴菲特很经典的一段话:&ldquo;当你察觉到自己的利益被侵害时,请务必当场翻脸,当场翻脸,有理有据,尽显豪迈,事后翻脸,则显得你小肚鸡肠,斤斤计较。</p><p>当场翻脸,让人知道你的底线,你是不好惹的,几个月后再去翻脸,所有人都认为你是麻烦的制造者。</p><p>记住,如果善良得不到尊重,那么解决人际关系最直接的方法,就是翻脸。&rdquo;</p><p>有些人的坏,不是一般的坏,是那种坏到骨子里的坏,他不会因为你的大度,就能对你以礼相待,也不会因为你的善良,就不去欺负你。</p><p>你想大事化小,你想宽容待人,你想多一事不如少一事,那别人只会觉得你好欺负。</p><p>人善被人欺,马善被人骑,在疯狗面前,不会因为你是好人,就不过来咬你,在小人面前,不会因为你是君子,就不过来坑你。</p><p>成年人的世界,丛林法则无处不在,欺软怕硬,弱肉强食,才是大部分人的通病,如果你不够强大,就很难适应这个社会。</p><p>莫言曾说:&ldquo;你越是做事果断,我行我素,不服就干,就越有人欣赏你,你越是老实善良,百依百顺,胆小怕事,就越有人欺负你。&rdquo;</p><p>麻绳专捡细处断,柿子专挑软的捏,你不狠,别人就会对你狠,你够狠,崩溃的就是别人。</p><p>当别人第一次欺负你的时候,一定要立马做出反击,让他知道,你不是软柿子,软弱换不来同情,善良换不来尊重,实力强大,才是行走江湖的通行证。</p><p>三观不和的人,赶快远离,看不起你的人,不用在意不尊重你的人,无需讨好,欺负你的人,一定要立马反击。</p><p>有些人就是喂不熟的狼,你付出再多,你忍让再多,别人都会觉得理所当然,一旦你不愿忍让,你之前所有的付出,都被忽略。</p><p>当你强大时,身边都是好人,当你弱小时,身边都是小人,忍让,善良,大度,并不能赢得别人的尊重,金钱和实力,才是硬道理。</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img 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行云何处去 发表于 2023-9-11 09:56

现在的人都很现实
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